Rights of Passage

A blog about disability issues in Chicago

Lessons from the Disabled

Those with disabilities can often teach those of us without physical impairments lessons about slowing down and not taking life for granted. This thought occurred to me as I was shopping at my local grocery store a couple of days ago. A team leader from a local disabilities charity was bringing a group of disabled adults through the store. Five adults with impairments pushed their carts quietly as they carefully checked their shopping lists.

I marveled at how involved the participants with disabilities became in their task, and how much they enjoyed it. In an effort to veer around the group with my cart, I accidentally tapped a customer's cart in the crowded freezer section. The woman, who did not have disabilities, looked at me with an annoyed look on her face as if to non-verbally say: "Why don't you watch where you are going?"

Meanwhile the coordinator leading the adults with disabilities witnessing "the sneer" apologized to me for possibly causing a problem. I told her not to worry about it, and then a few in her group looked up at me and smiled. I left thinking about the way I sometimes rush through my ordinary tasks in life, forgetting how I take my ability to "get things done" for granted. The more I get done the seemingly faster I go, frequently forgetting that sometimes it's just nice to be out there doing those ordinary jobs. I now have an intention of slowing down and smiling a little more while I am out there in the world.

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camilla says:
10 weeks 2 days ago

Yes, you are that one crack in that ceiling, we need more people like you, so our ceiling will shatter. People with disabilities are functional people.

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Rights of Passage is a blog that will address local issues facing the disability community in Chicago.  Edited by Jo Holzer and Catherine Marsden, Rights of Passage will look at current news, commentary and developments pertaining to accessibility around Chicago.

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